Spoil Me with Loyalty, I Can Finance Myself

Kata orang tua dulu, tidak usahlah perempuan banyak kerja di luar rumah. Tinggallah saja di rumah, urus rumah, besarkan anak, dan tentunya layani suami. Tugas perempuan adalah melayani keluarga sebaik mungkin dengan cara tinggal di rumah. Sedangkan tinggal di rumah saja pekerjaan masih keteteran apalagi kerja di luar rumah? Anak siapa yang urus? Suami? Mau… Continue reading Spoil Me with Loyalty, I Can Finance Myself

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Working Mom vs. Stay At Home Mom

Every mom wants to be the best for her child: to do what is the best for her child. However, the judgments of society continue to be there and drag the moms down out there. I am writing this post after I get many people curl their lips at me. So, for moms who are… Continue reading Working Mom vs. Stay At Home Mom

Why I don’t post my daughter’s picture on my social media? (They call it Sharenting)

I found myself in a quite difficult situation when I have to explain to my friends and family why I likely never put my daughter’s pictures on my social media. It’s seems like I don’t share my happiness with them when I have this little darling coming to my life. The ‘sharenting’ phenomena has brought… Continue reading Why I don’t post my daughter’s picture on my social media? (They call it Sharenting)

Me Against YÖK (Yükseköğretim Kurulu)

For an international student, bureaucracy sometime becomes a backstop for education. Well, this is my story dealing with YÖK (Yükseköğretim Kurulu) or Higher Education Council of Turkey. My experience is quite rare actually because I’ve never met any other students –Indonesian or other nationality- shared the same problem. Let me cut the crap and straight… Continue reading Me Against YÖK (Yükseköğretim Kurulu)

Inspiring or Just a Showing Off?

Bedanya menginspirasi dan pamer itu tipis, cyin. Sudah lama saya cukup teriritasi dengan beberapa postingan orang (yang unfortunately saya follow di media sosial) dan tidak cukup ‘berani’ untuk meng-unfollow mereka karena kekerabatan yang cukup dekat. Hal yang kemudian saya lakukan adalah: menutup permanen salah satu akun sosial media saya, yaitu Path. Maraknya pertumbuhan angka selebgrams… Continue reading Inspiring or Just a Showing Off?

Hati dan Logika ala Perempuan (Seakan) Realistis

Saya menulis tulisan ini sebenarnya rada gimana gitu. Well, maunya sih keep silent tapi gatal pengen komen soal si perempuan yang mengklaim dirinya realistis dalam menata dan memilah milih masa depannya. Iya, Selmadena Aqilla. Perempuan yang memilih realistis menerima pinangan Haqy Rais yang saat itu memiliki seorang pacar. Pasti kalian sudah membaca kisah ini. Pendapat… Continue reading Hati dan Logika ala Perempuan (Seakan) Realistis